Why Chris O’Donnell Walked Away From Blockbusters to Be a Dad First
For most rising stars in Hollywood, landing back-to-back roles in high-profile films is the dream. But for NCIS: Los Angeles star Chris O’Donnell, the bright lights of superstardom were never more important than building a life off-screen.
From Heartthrob to Homebody
In the 1990s, Chris O’Donnell was on the brink of becoming one of the biggest names in Hollywood. With roles in Circle of Friends, The Bachelor, and as Robin in Batman & Robin, he was well on his way to A-list status.
But then — something surprising happened. He stepped back.
“I was being offered these huge films that would have taken my career to a different level,” O’Donnell told Redbook. “And I decided to put on the brakes. I knew if I continued on that track, I probably wouldn’t have gotten married.”
Instead, at just 25 years old, O’Donnell made the kind of decision that few actors in his position would make: he chose family over fame.
Father of Five, Actor by Choice
Today, O’Donnell and his wife Caroline Fentress are raising five children: Lily, Christopher Jr., Charles, Finley, and Maeve. And while many celebrities struggle to juggle career demands with parenting, O’Donnell found a way to balance both — but on his own terms.
He waited until his children were a bit older before fully stepping back into the spotlight. When he did, it wasn’t with globe-trotting film shoots or intense press tours. Instead, he accepted the role of Special Agent G. Callen on NCIS: Los Angeles, a job that allowed for stability, routine, and, most importantly, time with his family.
Filming in a single location meant fewer disruptions — and even gave his kids a glimpse into his world. In fact, his youngest made a special cameo on the show’s 150th episode.
Hollywood on His Terms
While other actors chased box office glory, Chris O’Donnell prioritized soccer games, family dinners, and school pickups. And yet, his career hasn’t suffered — it’s just evolved. NCIS: LA ran for 14 seasons, cementing O’Donnell as a small-screen staple, all while letting him be the hands-on dad he always wanted to be.
In an industry that often demands sacrifice, O’Donnell’s story is a rare reminder: you don’t have to lose yourself — or your family — to find success.
More Stars Who Took a Step Back
Chris O’Donnell isn’t alone. More and more stars are rejecting the all-or-nothing myth of Hollywood. Stay tuned as we highlight other celebrities who chose to trade fame’s fast lane for the slower, richer road of family life.
