As The Golden Bachelorette’s first season reaches its finale, it’s becoming clearer that Joan Vassos may not leave the show with a ring on her finger. The 61-year-old private school administrator first entered Bachelor Nation as a contestant on The Golden Bachelor, where she vied for Gerry Turner’s affection. After an early departure due to a family emergency, Joan returned as the first Golden Bachelorette, hoping to find love among 24 single men. Now, with only three men left, it seems likely that Joan will end the season without an engagement.
Joan Has Been Cautious About Commitment
Unlike The Golden Bachelor, which ended with an engagement and a wedding, Joan has expressed reservations about rushing into marriage. Reflecting on the show’s precedent, she revealed in an interview with CNN before filming that she believes in taking time to truly know someone before making such a big commitment. This outlook reflects Joan’s desire to avoid the heartbreak of a public breakup, especially after the unfortunate end of Golden Bachelor couple Gerry and Theresa’s whirlwind marriage.
Still Mourning Her Late Husband
Joan’s hesitation to commit could stem from her recent loss. Before becoming the Golden Bachelorette, Joan was married to her husband, John Vassos, for over 30 years before his passing in 2021. Despite her willingness to look for love again, Joan has frequently mentioned her late husband, expressing feeling “like she’s cheating on him.” Her grief is understandable, and her candid remarks suggest that she may still be processing his passing. Entering a new marriage might simply be too soon for her, and this unresolved loss could prevent her from fully committing to someone new.
Should Joan Accept an Engagement?
Joan’s final three suitors are 69-year-old Pascal Igbui, 66-year-old Guy Gansert, and 60-year-old Chock Chapple, all of whom have developed strong connections with her. However, none of these relationships seem to have progressed to a place where marriage feels imminent or even advisable. Joan has been thoughtful about her journey, and if one of her final men proposes, it’s likely she’ll turn it down to avoid rushing into something she may not be ready for.
In a show that often emphasizes quick engagements, Joan’s hesitation feels refreshingly honest. Rather than an engagement, Joan may choose to continue developing her new relationship at her own pace, proving that finding love can be fulfilling even without a proposal.
