Since walking away from Chicago P.D. in 2022, Jesse Lee Soffer has built a much quieter, more intentional life — and fans are finally getting a clearer picture of how the former Det. Jay Halstead spends his days when he’s not on set.
In a new, relaxed interview, Soffer opened up about his post-P.D. routine, revealing a surprisingly low-key lifestyle that mixes creativity, adrenaline, and simple joys far removed from the intense world of the Intelligence Unit.
Mornings usually start early for the 42-year-old actor. He begins most days with a strong cup of coffee and a workout — often a mix of weight training, hiking, or Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. “I still need that physical outlet,” he admitted with a laugh. “After years of running and gunning on the show, my body got used to it. Now I do it for me, not for a scene.”
One of Soffer’s biggest passions these days is directing. Even after leaving the series as a regular, he has continued directing several episodes of Chicago P.D. each season. He says being behind the camera gives him a new kind of fulfillment. “Directing lets me stay connected to the show and the people I love without having to carry the emotional weight of a full-time character,” he explained. “It’s the best of both worlds.”
When he’s not in Chicago, Soffer splits his time between Los Angeles and quieter destinations. He’s an avid traveler and loves road trips, especially exploring national parks and small mountain towns. Recent trips have included hiking in Colorado, surfing in Costa Rica, and a solo motorcycle ride through the Pacific Northwest. “There’s something about being completely off the grid that resets me,” he shared.
Soffer is also a big foodie and amateur chef. He frequently posts stories of cooking at home — everything from Italian classics to experimental Asian fusion dishes. Friends say his kitchen is always open, and he enjoys hosting small dinner parties for close friends (including several One Chicago co-stars who still live in the area).
Another surprising hobby? Music. Soffer has been playing guitar since he was a teenager and has started writing songs again in his free time. While he has no plans to release an album, he says music helps him process emotions — especially after the intense final seasons of P.D.
He also stays deeply involved with causes close to his heart. Soffer regularly volunteers with veterans’ organizations and mental health initiatives, drawing from Halstead’s own backstory as an Afghanistan veteran. He’s been spotted at charity events and has quietly supported several first-responder foundations alongside his former castmates.
Perhaps most importantly, Soffer has prioritized personal relationships. His close bond with Tracy Spiridakos (including their recent joint puppy adoption) continues to make headlines, but he keeps most of his private life intentionally away from the public eye. “After so many years on a show that demanded so much emotionally, I just want balance,” he said.
Even with all these new pursuits, Soffer admits Chicago still feels like home. He returns often to visit friends, direct episodes, and occasionally grab a deep-dish pizza at one of his old favorite spots. “I left the show, but I didn’t leave the city or the people,” he added.
For fans who miss seeing Halstead every week, this glimpse into Soffer’s life after Chicago P.D. is both comforting and inspiring. He may no longer be chasing suspects on screen, but he’s clearly chasing a life that feels fulfilling on his own terms — one hike, one song, one directed scene at a time.
And judging by how content he sounds, Jay Halstead would probably be proud of the man who played him.