The Golden Bachelorette couple Joan Vassos and Chock Chapple rang in the New Year with resolutions that suggest it’s time for them to step back from the digital spotlight. The pair, who got engaged during the season finale of The Golden Bachelorette, have spent much of their post-show life sharing every milestone on Instagram. With a combined following of over 250,000, Joan and Chock’s lives have become an open book, but their recent comments hint at a need to unplug and prioritize their private connection in 2025.
Overexposed Online: Joan & Chock’s Social Media Habits
Since their journey on The Golden Bachelorette, Joan and Chock have maintained an almost constant presence on social media. Whether it’s documenting their New York City apartment search, sharing holiday celebrations with family, or completing viral couple challenges, the duo has given fans a front-row seat to their relationship. Joan’s Instagram boasts 181,000 followers, while Chock’s sits at 76,400, making them one of Bachelor Nation’s most-followed older couples.
However, the couple’s frequent updates have led some fans to wonder if the pressure of maintaining a picture-perfect online presence is taking its toll. Joan herself admitted in a recent interview that her New Year’s resolution is to “be more in the moment” and spend less time on her phone, while Chock added, “Don’t believe everything I see on the Internet,” a pointed comment that could address the rumors and criticisms they’ve faced online.
Life in the Spotlight: Fun or Exhausting?
Joan and Chock’s whirlwind post-show life has included everything from cooking together to revisiting Disneyland, the site of their first one-on-one date. Their content is often lighthearted and full of love, offering glimpses into their bond. One humorous post revealed Joan tackling Chock’s collection of 346 unmatched socks during her first visit to Kansas, a relatable moment that resonated with followers.
Despite the joy they bring to fans, the couple’s transparency may be adding undue stress to their relationship. Constantly curating and posting content—and engaging with comments—can feel like a full-time job. While their Instagram updates have endeared them to many, they’ve also left Joan and Chock vulnerable to intense public scrutiny, from breakup rumors to accusations of oversharing.
The Double-Edged Sword of Fame
Like many couples in the public eye, Joan and Chock face a mix of admiration and criticism. Their fans celebrate their love story, calling it a revitalizing moment for the Bachelor franchise, but skeptics question the authenticity of their bond. Joan and Chock’s decision to share so much of their lives has fueled speculation, with every post dissected for signs of trouble or validation.
Chock’s resolution to “not believe everything I see on the Internet” suggests the couple is aware of the online narratives swirling around them. His comment, followed by Joan’s laughter, may have been a subtle reminder to fans that not everything shared—or speculated—online reflects reality.
Should Joan & Chock Take a Break?
As Joan and Chock embark on another year together, their New Year’s resolutions could be the key to preserving their relationship. Joan’s life is rich with family, including her children, grandchildren, and 92-year-old mother, while Chock has his own support system, including two adult children. Prioritizing time with loved ones and focusing on their future together could strengthen their bond, away from the distractions of social media.
Stepping back from the digital limelight could also help them withstand the pressures of public life. Many past Bachelor Nation couples have struggled to navigate the challenges of fame, but Joan and Chock have the foundation to succeed. By protecting their privacy and focusing on their partnership, they might find the peace and longevity they deserve.
A New Chapter for Joan & Chock
While fans have enjoyed following Joan and Chock’s post-show journey, it’s clear they owe nothing to the public at this stage of their relationship. A social media detox might be the perfect way for them to deepen their connection and ensure they’re building a future that’s rooted in reality, not just curated for Instagram. Joan and Chock have the potential to be a shining example of lasting love—but first, they may need to unplug.
