EXCLUSIVE: A body language expert has shared her thoughts on the siting of Theresa Nist after it was revealed she and Gerry Turner are living separately.
Fans have been sharing their concerns for Gerry Turner and Theresa Nist’s marriage and it turns out their worries could be valid.
The couple, who met on ABC’s latest Bachelor spin-off, The Golden Bachelor, have had their relationship ridiculed since they tied the knot in January.
And now fans’ worries have heightened after it was revealed Theresa and Gerry are still living separately, despite being married for four months.
The 70-year-old was spotted leaving her job at a financial firm on Monday, looking rather glum and in low spirits.
While Theresa could just be worn out after a long day at her 9-5, body language expert Judi James thinks otherwise.
Speaking to Daily Express US about the newly emerged pictures of Theresa, Judi explained: “Gerry’s attachment signals to Theresa have always looked like a work in progress and this lengthy gap as they live apart is unlikely to improve that situation.
“It was always Theresa showing the more intense body language of love and devotion, snuggling up to Gerry in some very tactile and besotted displays, like a bride in love with her man,” she went on to say.
Judi noted: “And now we’re being shown photos and footage of her solo and looking unhappy with that wonderful beaming smile vanished and it’s understandable if fans worry that she is feeling lonely here.
“As we get older and establish our own lives, build our own habits, buy our own properties and build careers (as well as having our own pets), any seismic change of that lifestyle can be daunting,” she said.
“This marriage needed to be built on many changes in lifestyle, hopefully for both Gerry and Theresa and momentum could be vital.”
Judi pointed out that the “longer change doesn’t happen” the “harder it can be to get the motivation going to make it”.
“They both went on the show with what should have been a desire to make some total changes in their lifestyle but this stalling could cause problems, no matter how much it is caused but practicalities rather than a lack of desire,” the body language expert warned.
However, Judi did note that the pair could be working on their relationship and “keeping this momentum going behind the scenes” because this “sad-looking version of Theresa is probably not what the fans wanted to see”.
As she pointed attention to the fact that “when you meet the partner of your dreams any separation, even of a few hours, should feel unbearable.”
