For fans of classic television, Ethel and Fred Mertz from I Love Lucy are an iconic, if bickering, couple. Portrayed by Vivian Vance and William Frawley, their on-screen chemistry as Lucy and Ricky Ricardo’s landlords and best friends was undeniable. Yet, behind the scenes, their relationship was anything but harmonious – in fact, it was famously acrimonious.
The animosity between Vance and Frawley was well-documented and far more intense than their characters’ marital squabbles. Vivian Vance reportedly had a strong dislike for Frawley, even going as far as to refer to him as an “old, fat, flatulent fink” and a “smelly old man.” She allegedly refused to eat lunch with him and openly expressed her displeasure at being cast as his wife, particularly given their 22-year age difference. Vance, who was 43 at the show’s start, was concerned about playing the wife of a man in his mid-60s, fearing it would make her appear older.
Frawley, in turn, did not hold back his disdain for Vance. He reportedly criticized her acting, calling her “phony” and “fake,” and even went to the show’s producers to request a different co-star. He apparently found her difficult to work with and made no secret of his annoyance.
Despite their very public and intense personal dislike, Vance and Frawley managed to deliver incredibly convincing and comedic performances together. Their ability to maintain such impeccable on-screen chemistry, despite their real-life feud, is a testament to their professionalism and acting prowess. Many viewers were completely unaware of the animosity simmering beneath the surface, a true mark of their talent.
As many fans have often commented, “Their chemistry was top-notch – but only because they were great actors, not because they were real friends.” Their story remains one of Hollywood’s most fascinating examples of professional commitment triumphing over personal animosity, creating enduring characters beloved by generations.
