After their engagement on The Golden Bachelorette, Joan Vassos and Chock Chapple are making a significant move: relocating to New York City. While they’ll retain their homes in Maryland and Kansas, this decision marks a new phase in their relationship and offers a strategic way to stay connected with their children. The couple, who bonded deeply during season 1 of The Golden Bachelorette, are ready to start a shared life that honors their family ties and individual commitments.
A New Beginning in the Big City
Joan, a 61-year-old private school administrator, and Chock, a 60-year-old insurance executive, had an undeniable connection from the start of their season. Their love story blossomed despite personal hardships; Joan had to leave The Golden Bachelor for a family emergency in season 1, which showed how crucial staying connected to her family is for her. Their decision to move to New York City, a place both have dreamed of living, is more than a romantic gesture—it’s practical and deeply thoughtful.
Joan’s words capture their vision perfectly: “We both love the energy in the city and love that there’s always something to do. We just wanna go out and walk and experience life — go to fun restaurants and [experience the] culture.” Living in NYC will offer them the opportunity to continue their journey as a couple while sharing in the vibrant city life, especially during the holidays.
Staying Close to Family
Joan is devoted to her family, especially her four adult children and two grandkids, and will not move far from her home base in Maryland. With only a few hours’ travel time by car or train, the couple can easily return for family gatherings or emergencies. Chock, whose two children also live on the East Coast, will benefit from being near his kids while respecting Joan’s need for family proximity. This dual-location living plan lets them split their time between their new city home and their existing residences in Maryland and Kansas, striking a perfect balance between their relationship and family obligations.
A Thoughtful Solution for Lasting Love
Unlike The Golden Bachelor’s Gerry and Theresa, who separated shortly after their high-profile wedding due to disagreements over where to live, Joan and Chock’s thoughtful approach gives them a solid foundation. By establishing a plan that prioritizes family connections and individual needs, they’re avoiding potential pitfalls. Gerry and Theresa’s story highlighted the challenges that arise when couples prioritize fantasy over real-world considerations. Joan and Chock, however, have proven that they can blend heart and practicality for a future that’s promising and sustainable.
A Future Full of Hope
With their NYC move, Joan and Chock are setting the stage for a life together that balances romance with familial responsibilities. This fresh start, coupled with their commitment to maintaining ties with their families in Maryland and Kansas, signifies a mature and well-rounded approach to love after 60. Their story, built on mutual respect and strategic planning, gives hope for their lasting happiness—and sets a high standard for future couples in The Golden franchise.
