After facing rejection on The Golden Bachelorette, Joan Vassos found redemption through her fairy tale romance with Chock Chapple. Joan, 61, was a contestant on The Golden Bachelor season 1, which featured 72-year-old Gerry Turner in the lead role. Joan’s time on The Golden Bachelor was cut short, and Gerry married Theresa Nist soon after the season ended. However, the couple divorced after just three months.
After losing out on her chance with Gerry, Joan stepped back into the spotlight to star in The Golden Bachelorette season 1. She struck up several promising romances along her journey. Joan learned she could find love again without betraying the memory of her late husband. She ultimately chose Chock Chapple, a Kansas-based insurance executive. The couple became engaged in the finale, and they’ve been basking in their new romance ever since.
Joan Was Rejected On The Golden Bachelorette
She Battled Self-Doubt Before Finding Happiness With Chock
Joan worked hard to let her guard down and embrace her vulnerability on The Golden Bachelorette, but she was met with painful rejection. Pascal Ibgui, one of the final three contestants, joined Joan in Tahiti and even participated in a commitment ceremony. But as the competition narrowed, he got cold feet. Pascal admitted he didn’t have romantic feelings for Joan and removed himself from the competition.
Joan was heartbroken by Pascal’s exit. It made her question if she was worthy of finding love at all, and suddenly, she wondered if she would leave Tahiti alone. Pascal’s rejection echoed Joan’s earlier experience with Gerry on The Golden Bachelor.
Joan and Gerry got off to a promising start and forged a deep connection that made them both hopeful about their future together. Unfortunately, she had to self-eliminate to care for her daughter during a medical emergency, a decision that left them both devastated. Joan admitted she held onto hope Gerry would pursue her after her departure, but instead, he moved on quickly and married somebody else. Now that Joan and Chock are together and Gerry’s single, it’s understandable if Joan wants to rub her happiness in Gerry’s face and prove she’s happier than ever.
Joan Acts Like Chock Chapple’s Prince Charming
Is Her Praise Of Chock Over The Top?
Now that Joan and Chock’s engagement is publicized, they can’t stop gushing about each other. They talked openly about their wedding plans with various news outlets, even though they claimed to want a long engagement. Joan often comments about how easygoing Chock is as they plan their nuptials, possibly to refute his reputation for being controlling on The Golden Bachelorette.
The new couple is eager to show off their affection in all their photos and videos. Joan is happy and wants to spread hope that love is possible at any age.
Joan and Chock appear to be together nonstop, and she’s documenting all the firsts in their relationship on social media as they integrate one another into their lives. The new couple is eager to show off their affection in all their photos and videos. Joan is happy and wants to spread hope that love is possible at any age. But her constant praise of Chock and promotion of their relationship sometimes seems over the top. She may be overhyping their romance to show Gerry what he missed out on.
Is Joan Trying Too Hard?
Her Relationship With Chock Is Still Fragile
Joan’s certainly in a better position than Gerry right now, but she may regret boasting about her happiness down the line. Her relationship with Chock is still so new. If they end up breaking up, just like Gerry and Theresa, her attempt to rub her happiness in Gerry’s face will backfire terribly.
Joan and Chock’s romance has several red flags. Their relaxed attitude towards their long engagement may result in an indefinitely postponed wedding. Joan and Chock plan to divide their time between homes in New York, Maryland, and Kansas. This chaotic lifestyle won’t provide them with the stability they need to build a life together, and they might end up spending more time apart than together. Once the honeymoon phase ends, Joan and Chock may get too comfortable living separate lives and never even make it down the aisle.
Gerry made a big mistake when he let Joan get away. She met dozens of men on The Golden Bachelorette who valued her more than he did. Now that she’s living her fairytale, nobody could blame Joan for wanting Gerry to see what he gave up. But it would be wise for her to settle into her life with Chock and make sure it’s everything she dreamed it would be before getting carried away.