Joan Vassos and Chock Chapple captured hearts on The Golden Bachelorette, and despite the challenges ahead, I firmly believe they will marry in 2025. However, lasting happiness is another question. While they seem compatible, their relationship faces real obstacles that could threaten their future together. Their bond is still new, and as they navigate major life changes, certain red flags suggest their late-in-life romance may not be as enduring as they hope.
Past Loves & Lingering Grief: Are They Truly Ready?
Joan spent over three decades with her late husband, John Vassos, building a partnership where they knew each other inside and out. Likewise, Chock was engaged for nine years to Katherine “Kathy” Elizabeth White Goree before her passing. Both have experienced profound loss, but the depth of their past relationships raises concerns—do they truly know each other well enough to take this next step? Or is their connection more about shared grief than long-term compatibility?
Joan’s Friendship with Gerry Turner—A Jealousy Trigger for Chock?
One of the most telling signs of possible trouble ahead is Joan’s close friendship with Golden Bachelor Gerry Turner. Joan has remained supportive of Gerry, who is battling cancer, offering him comfort and encouragement. While their bond is purely platonic, Chock’s past behavior suggests he might struggle with jealousy. On the show, he was visibly possessive, monopolizing Joan’s attention during group dates. If he harbors any insecurities about Joan’s friendship with a former love interest, this could create tensions down the line.
The Uncertainty of Their Living Situation
Joan and Chock are still figuring out where they will settle down, a major stressor in any relationship. Their current plan involves splitting time between Maryland, Kansas, and New York City, yet they have struggled to secure a place in NYC, which Joan recently admitted left her feeling “bummed.” Constantly traveling between locations may sound romantic, but in reality, it can lead to instability and strain. Without a solid home base, maintaining a deep connection could prove difficult.
The Weight of Public Expectations
The world is watching Joan and Chock, eager to see if they’ll make it to the altar—or fall apart like Golden Bachelor couple Gerry and Theresa. This added pressure may push them toward a wedding before they’re truly ready, leading to potential regrets. Second marriages statistically have a higher failure rate, and with Joan still openly grieving her late husband, stepping into a new marriage could stir unexpected emotions and comparisons.
Would Skipping Marriage Be the Better Choice?
At this stage in life, does Joan and Chock’s love truly need a marriage certificate? Their bond is what matters, not the ceremony. Joan recently expressed deep sadness on her late husband’s birthday, proving that grief still weighs heavily on her. Rushing into marriage could amplify these emotions, making her compare her new relationship to the old one. Instead of diving into legal commitments, perhaps they should simply enjoy their time together without the added pressure of making it official.
Can They Beat the Odds?
Love is rare, especially a deep and lasting soul connection. Joan and Chock may have found something special, but whether they can sustain it remains uncertain. While marriage might feel like a natural next step, it could introduce unnecessary complications. If they prioritize enjoying each day together without overcomplicating things, they may have a better chance at long-term happiness. However, if lingering insecurities, unresolved grief, or logistical struggles take their toll, this fairytale romance may not have a happily-ever-after ending.
