As the debut season of The Golden Bachelorette approaches its finale, Joan Vassos finds herself grappling with a difficult decision. Looking back on her journey, she has expressed some regret over her choices, particularly when it comes to two of her eliminated suitors, Mark Anderson and Jordan Heller.
In a candid interview on the Off the Vine podcast with former Bachelorette Kaitlyn Bristowe, Joan admitted, “I feel I needed more time with Mark and more time with Jordan, honestly.” Her reflections offer a glimpse into the emotional complexity of finding love in such a condensed timeframe.
Joan elaborated on her concerns regarding Jordan, who had expressed uncertainty about his readiness for a serious relationship. “He said we had a slow burn, and he was very uncomfortable in the beginning and throughout the whole journey,” Joan shared. Despite enjoying their time together and feeling that their connection could develop, she recognized that they had not reached the stage of love during the show’s filming.
Regarding Mark, Joan recounted how she had started to develop feelings for him during their one-on-one yacht date. “I finally started having feelings for him, and the yacht date was really good,” she remembered fondly. However, she noted that Mark had undergone significant personal growth throughout the season, forming strong bonds with other contestants. Yet, she felt unsure about how she fit into his vision for the future.
Joan’s reflections highlight the inherent challenges of the reality dating format, where meaningful connections often take time to develop. While she may wish she could have spent more time with Mark and Jordan, she remains confident in the choices she has made leading up to the finale.
As the season wraps up, Joan faces a pivotal moment in her quest for love, knowing that the remaining suitors may have captured her heart in ways she has yet to fully explore. Ultimately, her journey serves as a poignant reminder of the complexities of relationships and the impact of time in building true connections.
