After a dramatic self-elimination from The Golden Bachelorette, contestant Pascal Ibgui has publicly apologized to Joan Vassos for not being the man she needed, all while stirring up controversy by labeling fellow contestant Chock Chapple a “stalker.” Pascal exited the show during his Fantasy Suite date with Joan, explaining he wasn’t in love with her. In a later interview, Pascal described Chock’s behavior as overly possessive, especially during a group date, which sparked further tension.
Pascal’s Public Apology to Joan
In an Instagram post following the show, Pascal expressed his gratitude to Joan, saying, “I want to thank Joan for the opportunity. Sorry I couldn’t be that special person needed to be with you. But I have all the confidence that you will find your person.” He added that he was honored to be part of The Golden Bachelorette journey and thanked his family, friends, and Bachelor Nation fans for their support.
Pascal’s post emphasized the appreciation he felt for the experience, calling it “a journey” and “a ride,” but also acknowledged he couldn’t meet Joan’s hopes in their relationship. His post was seen by many fans as a gesture of goodwill and closure after a heartfelt goodbye.
The Impact on Joan and Pascal’s Relationship
While Pascal’s apology may have been well-intended, the fallout from his comments about Chock remains a potential source of strain between him and Joan. By calling Chock’s behavior “stalker-like,” Pascal may have jeopardized any lingering friendship with Joan, especially if she ultimately chooses Chock. The upcoming “Men Tell All” episode could offer a chance for Pascal to address these comments directly with Joan—and possibly with Chock as well.
Could Pascal Have Avoided This Situation?
Reflecting on his experience, some fans speculate that Pascal may not have been ready to join The Golden Bachelorette. After nearly getting engaged in his last relationship, which ended only a year before the show, Pascal admits he struggled to be vulnerable on-camera. In fact, his daughter was the one who submitted him for the show, which he admits was an unexpected choice given his guarded feelings. With hindsight, Pascal likely realizes he should have left the show earlier, given his reluctance to pursue a serious relationship with Joan.
Why Pascal’s Journey Still Resonates with Fans
Despite his quick exit, Pascal’s journey resonated with many viewers. His experience served as a reminder that reality TV is often more about personal growth than a guaranteed happy ending. Although his comments about Chock were met with criticism, Pascal’s apology was seen as a positive step. Fans of The Golden Bachelorette hope that his relationship with Joan ends on a friendly note, as their connection—though it didn’t last—was genuine.
