Ahead of the season finale of The Golden Bachelorette, ABC’s first Golden Bachelor, Gerry Turner, sat down for an exclusive interview with ABC15’s Jordan Bontke. Turner opened up about his journey on the show, his search for love after his brief marriage to Theresa, and what advice he has for this season’s lead, Joan Vassos, as she prepares to make her final decision.
In the interview, Turner reflected on the challenges and surprises he faced as the first-ever Golden Bachelor. While his time on the show with his final pick, Theresa Nist, seemed promising, their marriage ended in a shocking split just months after their televised wedding. Despite the heartbreak, Turner emphasized how much the experience taught him about relationships and what he hopes for moving forward in his own life.
Gerry Turner on Love After Loss
Turner, who lost his wife of 43 years to cancer before joining The Golden Bachelor, spoke candidly about how his grief shaped his approach to love. “After losing someone so close, it’s hard to think about opening your heart again,” he explained. “But this journey has reminded me that love is worth pursuing at any age. It’s not just about finding a partner—it’s about rediscovering yourself and your capacity to love again.”
Although his romance with Theresa ended earlier than many expected, Turner acknowledged that the experience gave him a deeper understanding of himself and what he needs from a partner. “I learned a lot about communication, vulnerability, and the importance of being true to yourself,” he shared. “Love isn’t about rushing things—it’s about finding the right fit and being patient with the process.”
Advice for Joan: Take Your Time
As The Golden Bachelorette finale nears, Turner offered valuable advice for Joan Vassos, the 61-year-old lead who has captured the hearts of viewers. “Joan has already shown such strength and grace through this journey,” Turner said. “My advice to her would be to trust her instincts and take her time with her decision. It’s easy to get caught up in the pressure of the show, but finding real love isn’t about performing for the cameras—it’s about listening to what your heart tells you.”
Turner also emphasized the importance of maintaining a balance between emotional connections and personal boundaries. “Joan has already made great progress in her journey of healing and opening her heart,” he said. “I think it’s important for her to stay true to herself and not feel rushed. Whether she’s ready for a second chance at love or not, it’s okay to take things at her own pace.”
Moving Forward in the Quest for Love
Though Turner’s journey on The Golden Bachelor didn’t end in a happily-ever-after, he remains optimistic about love and his future. He’s hopeful that his experience will inspire others, especially those who are starting over later in life. “It’s never too late to find love,” Turner said. “The most important thing is being open to it and believing in the possibility, no matter your age.”
As Joan Vassos gets ready to make her final decision between her two remaining suitors, Turner is excited to see how her story unfolds. “I think Joan has already had a beautiful journey, and I wish her the best as she decides who is the right person for her,” he said.
How to Watch the Finale
The season finale of The Golden Bachelorette airs Wednesday night at 8 p.m. ET on ABC. Tune in to see who Joan Vassos gives her final rose to, as her emotional journey reaches its conclusion.
