Ethel Mertz: The Worst Best Friend Who Was Also the Absolute Best

She’d claim she was trying to stop Lucy from causing trouble, but more often than not, it was Ethel herself who was… an accomplice! 😂

Everyone needs an “Ethel” in their life: someone who knows you’re making a questionable choice but still plays along – just so you’re not doing it alone! Vivian Vance masterfully transformed Ethel into one of television’s most endearingly exasperating best friends.

Ethel Mertz, played by the brilliant Vivian Vance, wasn’t your typical perfect sidekick. She was often critical, sometimes a bit self-serving, and frequently the first to point out the flaws in Lucy Ricardo’s outlandish schemes. Yet, despite her frequent protests and eye-rolls, Ethel almost always ended up right there with Lucy, elbow-deep in whatever chaotic caper Lucy had concocted.

This paradoxical dynamic is precisely what made Ethel so relatable and beloved. She was the voice of reason that Lucy rarely listened to, but also the co-conspirator who couldn’t resist a good adventure. Think of their iconic moments:

  • The Chocolate Factory: Ethel’s reluctant participation quickly turned into gleeful indulgence as they struggled to keep up with the conveyor belt, stuffing their faces with chocolates.
  • Vitameatavegamin: While Lucy was the star, Ethel’s attempts to hold back laughter while watching Lucy’s increasingly inebriated performance were priceless.
  • Trying to Get into Show Business: Whether they were rehearsing a terrible song-and-dance routine or sneaking into Ricky’s performances, Ethel was always game for the grand (and usually disastrous) theatrical aspiration.

Ethel’s magic lay in her authenticity. She wasn’t a blind follower; she had her own opinions and wasn’t afraid to voice them, even if it meant bickering with Lucy. Yet, beneath the sarcasm and occasional complaints, lay an unshakeable loyalty. She was Lucy’s confidante, her partner in crime, and her most reliable friend, always there to pick up the pieces (or just commiserate) when a scheme inevitably blew up in their faces.

Vivian Vance brought an incredible depth to Ethel, making her far more than just a comedic foil. She made Ethel human, flawed, and utterly lovable. She showed us that true friendship isn’t about always making the right choices or always agreeing; it’s about being there, through thick and thin, even when “thin” involves getting stuck in a giant cheese wheel or covered in sticky buns.

So, yes, Ethel Mertz might have been the “worst” at preventing Lucy’s antics, but by joining in, she truly became the “best” friend Lucy (and we) could ever ask for.

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