The Golden Bachelorette stars Joan Vassos and Chock Chapple have been engaged in a long-distance relationship for months, but their dynamic may not be sustainable. Joan and Chock met through the dating competition, with their shared interests, humor, and values evident on their first date. Chock quickly established himself as a season front-runner, and his relationship with Joan strengthened over time. By the finale of The Golden Bachelorette season 1, Joan’s choice was clear. Chock was awarded the final rose, and he proposed.
Since their reality TV stint, Joan and Chock have kept busy with constant traveling. The couple bounces from state to state while pursuing professional and recreational opportunities. While these travels allow Joan and Chock to meet up often, their busy schedules have put constraints on their time together. Joan has been visiting Chock’s hometown in Kansas frequently. She may be reconsidering her decision to stay in Maryland. However, if she does relocate, she may regret this sacrifice and resent Chock.
Joan Met All Chock’s Friends in Wichita
Joan Has Local Connections
Joan has made the effort to meet with Chock and his social network in his hometown. When she visited Wichita, Kansas, in late February, Chock took Joan to a reunion to meet some friends. In a video posted to Joan’s Instagram, she connects with several guests. Joan seems genuinely excited to meet the people who’ve worked alongside her fiancé. These connections could be as fruitful for Joan as they are for Chock.
Joan is building a network in Chock’s hometown.
Joan has been traveling frequently on behalf of the relationship, and this excursion was no exception. The star is embracing everything that Chock holds dear. Chock has been very vocal about his adoration of Wichita, and Joan seems to share his sentiment. This trip wasn’t her first social visit, as Joan flew to Kansas in January.
On this trip, Chock took Joan to his favorite spots. The various pictures posted to Joan’s Instagram, in which they beam with happiness, illustrate Chock’s connection to the city. He was ecstatic to share his home with the woman that he loves. Joan seemed equally excited about the opportunity. Kansas may be lingering on her mind, but the big move may not be best for the reality star.
Chock Keeps Promoting Wichita
Chock Clearly Won’t Move
Chock has made it clear he would be unwilling to move for good. Chock built an empire for himself in Kansas as he owns three houses in Wichita and its surrounding areas. Chock also comes from a long line of insurance professionals and has not broken tradition. According to Chock’s LinkedIn, he originally owned CIG insurance but sold the company in 2020. Chock then established Insurance Services Group, a full-service insurance agency local to Wichita.
Chock has little incentive to leave Kansas, and he may want Joan to move to his hometown.
Chock’s love of Wichita has seeped into his online content. The executive posted an Instagram video in mid-February discussing his favorite aspects of the city. He’s talked about Kansas’ affordable housing and activities and mentioned Joan is “hooked” on the area after getting a 40-dollar-hour-long massage. Chock may be trying to sell Joan in the area.
Some fans are second-guessing Chocks’ intentions, with one comment reading, “Old man set in his ways. Forget changing his mind, Joan.” It seems their audience isn’t confident that Chock would be flexible for the relationship. Joan may have to bite the bullet if the couple wants to move in together. This would complicate things as Joan has roots in her hometown of Rockville, Maryland, as well.
Joan’s Been Spending A Lot Of Time In Kansas
Joan Can’t Move From Her Family
Joan is willing to make sacrifices for their relationship as she frequently visits Chock but doesn’t want to move entirely. Joan and Chock bonded over their shared prioritization of family. Subsequently, neither party wants to move away from their support systems.
Chock’s children have moved to Charlette, North Carolina, but Joan’s family still resides locally. Even if her children weren’t an easy commute, Joan’s 92-year-old mother, Mary, lives in a local senior home. Joan is concerned about her mother’s health, as evident in episode three when she gets a phone call regarding Mary’s respiratory issues. In this episode, Joan admits:
“It’s ultimately my responsibility to take care of my mom, and I feel guilty that I’m not there to help.”
Joan would never leave her family behind, especially considering her mother’s age. If Joan were to move to Kansas, she might regret the decision. The Golden Bachelorette may be feeling pressure from outside sources, but she must remain true to herself. Bachelor fans may not see a large commitment like relocation for some time.
