Joan Vassos never imagined finding love again after losing her husband of 32 years, John Vassos, in 2021. But life had other plans. Her journey from heartbreak to hope led her to reality TV, where she first appeared on The Golden Bachelor before becoming the first-ever Golden Bachelorette. Through this whirlwind experience, she met and fell in love with Chock Chapple, who ultimately won her heart—and her final rose.
Despite their deep connection and engagement, the couple has yet to set a wedding date. Joan recently opened up about the real reasons behind their decision to take things slow, and it has everything to do with family, career opportunities, and making sure they get it right.
A Second Chance at Love
From the moment Joan met Chock on The Golden Bachelorette, their chemistry was undeniable. Their first one-on-one date at Disneyland solidified their bond, and it quickly became clear that he was the frontrunner. By the season finale, their engagement felt like a natural conclusion to their love story.
However, real-life relationships don’t come with fairytale timelines. One of the biggest challenges they face is geography—Joan is based in Maryland, while Chock runs a successful insurance business in Kansas. Neither is eager to uproot their lives just yet, leading them to maintain a long-distance relationship while searching for a shared home in New York City.
Navigating Family & New Beginnings
Blending families has been another crucial aspect of their journey. Joan has four adult children, while Chock has two from his previous marriage. While their kids were initially skeptical—especially Joan’s, who worried Chock might replace their late father—the couple has worked hard to build trust and create a sense of unity. After spending holidays together, the families have warmed up to the relationship, but ensuring a smooth transition remains a priority before they officially tie the knot.
The Real Reason for the Wedding Delay
Despite speculation, Joan reassures fans that their relationship is stronger than ever. In a recent interview, she confessed: “I fall more and more in love with him every day.” However, with both of them receiving numerous career opportunities and media appearances since leaving The Golden Bachelorette, they simply haven’t had the time to plan a wedding.
Unlike the first Golden Bachelor couple, Gerry Turner and Theresa Nist—who married quickly and divorced within months—Joan and Chock are in no rush. They’re focused on building their life together at their own pace, proving that love in your golden years isn’t about following a set timeline, but about embracing the journey.
For now, they’re happy traveling between states, growing their relationship, and enjoying the adventure—proving that sometimes, taking your time is the best way to ensure a lifetime of happiness.
