Joan Vassos and Chock Chapple, stars of The Golden Bachelorette, are rewriting the script for reality TV romances. After getting engaged during the show’s finale, the couple is taking a thoughtful and measured approach to their future together, prioritizing family integration and shared experiences over rushing to the altar.
“They’re not in a hurry to get married,” an insider shared with Life & Style. “Joan and Chock are focused on building a strong foundation. They want their families to bond before taking the next big step. For now, they’re enjoying their engagement and exploring what works best for their relationship.”
A New Kind of Romance: Love Across State Lines
Joan, 61, resides in Maryland, while Chock, 61, calls Kansas home. Despite the distance, the couple has found creative ways to make their relationship thrive. They are currently searching for a New York City apartment that will serve as their romantic retreat.
“It’s not a permanent move,” Joan explained to People. “It’s going to be a place for our little honeymoon. A love shack, really.” She sees the setup as an exciting adventure rather than a challenge, telling Us Weekly that sharing time between homes adds a unique spark to their relationship.
“We plan to spend two or three weeks together every month,” Joan said. “The logistics won’t stop us. You make it work when it’s worth it.”
Lessons Learned from Reality Romance
The couple’s cautious approach stands in contrast to Golden Bachelor couple Gerry Turner and Theresa Nist, whose whirlwind romance ended in divorce just three months after their televised wedding. Joan and Chock are determined not to repeat those mistakes, choosing to take their time and ensure their relationship is built to last.
While some friends have expressed concerns about whether their long-distance arrangement can work, Joan and Chock remain optimistic. “They’re hopeful and committed to making it work,” the insider noted.
Blending Families and New Beginnings
Joan and Chock recently celebrated their first Thanksgiving as a couple, bringing their families together for the holiday in Maryland. Joan has four children from her marriage to the late John Vassos, while Chock has two children with his ex-wife, Heather.
“I was nervous about introducing everyone all at once,” Joan admitted. “Holiday times can already be stressful, and combining families added another layer. But it went wonderfully. Our kids got along so well. By the end of the evening, they left us to go hang out together!”
This successful family integration has bolstered Joan and Chock’s confidence in their relationship. “We’ve been very lucky,” Joan said. “The fact that our kids hit it off so quickly means the world to us.”
A Love Story Worth the Wait
Joan and Chock’s approach to love emphasizes patience, understanding, and shared joy. By prioritizing their families and taking time to adjust to their new reality, they are setting a strong example of how to navigate romance in the golden years.
Their plans for a New York City getaway, a blended family, and a steady pace toward marriage reflect their commitment to making thoughtful choices. For Joan and Chock, love isn’t about rushing—it’s about savoring the journey together.
