Joan Vassos’ journey on The Golden Bachelorette was filled with ups and downs, but it has led her to a truly magical love story with Chock Chapple. After her brief appearance on The Golden Bachelor, where Joan faced the heartbreak of being eliminated, she became the first-ever Golden Bachelorette. Though her search for love wasn’t easy, especially after the death of her beloved husband, John, Joan found healing and happiness again when she got engaged to Chock at the end of her season.
Chock, a single father who had also experienced loss from a previous divorce, shared an undeniable connection with Joan from the moment they met. His first solo date with her, at Disneyland, set the tone for a deep bond that only grew stronger throughout the show. In the season finale, when Joan had to make the difficult choice, she ultimately sent runner-up Guy Gansert home, recognizing that her heart belonged to Chock.
Finding a Living Solution That Works for Both
One of the main concerns for Joan and Chock was how to handle their living situation, considering they each have families and lives in different states. With Joan living in Maryland and Chock in Kansas, fans wondered if they would face the same dilemma as Golden Bachelor Gerry Turner and Theresa Nist, whose marriage fell apart partly because of disagreements about where to settle.
However, Joan and Chock have found a compromise that works for them. The couple has decided to purchase a home in New York City—a place they both have always dreamed of living. They plan to split their time between New York, Kansas, and Maryland, ensuring neither of them has to give up their family, friends, or careers. This flexibility shows how their love is built on realistic expectations and mutual respect, making it a promising start to their new life together.
Plans for a Bright Future Together
Joan and Chock are excited to move forward with their lives, now that their engagement is no longer a secret. After months of keeping their relationship private during the airing of The Golden Bachelorette, they’re ready to share their happiness with friends and family. Joan expressed to Us Weekly that she and Chock are looking forward to traveling together, especially as their children are now older and they have more freedom to explore.
For Joan, this engagement has restored her faith in the future. After losing John, she felt like her life had lost its direction, but with Chock, she now feels hope and excitement. She shared that before meeting Chock, she feared her future was a “black hole,” but now it feels brighter than ever.
Shared Grief Brings Them Closer
Joan and Chock’s connection is even more profound because of their shared experiences with loss. Joan’s husband John passed away from cancer in 2021, and Chock’s fiancée Kathy died of brain cancer just the year before. Both Joan and Chock had to confront their grief before opening their hearts to each other, which made their bond even more meaningful.
Chock understands Joan’s pain, and he promised her children that he would never try to replace their father. Together, they honor the memory of their late partners, ensuring they remain an important part of their lives as they build something new together.
Taking Their Time
While their engagement began quickly on The Golden Bachelorette, Joan and Chock are now focused on taking things slow. They’re not rushing into marriage and are dedicated to building a strong foundation before making such a big commitment. Their focus on truly getting to know each other and enjoying every moment together bodes well for the future of their relationship.
Joan’s experience on The Golden Bachelorette has taught her that she is deserving of love and happiness again. With Chock by her side, she seems to have found the perfect partner, and their love story is just beginning. Joan and Chock have a bright future ahead, filled with shared joy, healing, and new adventures.
