Joan Vassos and Chock Chapple’s engagement was the heartwarming highlight of The Golden Bachelorette, but it seems like fans eager for a wedding will have to wait a little longer. The couple, who got engaged during the finale episode in Bora Bora, recently revealed that they’re taking things slow and focusing on enjoying their engagement before planning a big day.
After the show wrapped, Joan and Chock confirmed their plans to move to New York City together, marking a new chapter in their relationship. But when it comes to the wedding, they’ve decided to take their time.
During a recent interview on Good Morning America, Joan shared, “I finally feel like I can look forward to the next chapter of my life. I lost that sense of excitement for a while, so I want to take my time and enjoy this engagement phase.” Chock added, “I want to be there for every part of this journey—whether it’s moving to New York City or planning our future together.”
So, will Joan and Chock be following in the footsteps of The Golden Bachelor stars Gerry Turner and Theresa Nist, who tied the knot just three months after their finale? It doesn’t look like it. Joan clarified, “You’re not going to see a TV wedding in just three months. We want to take our time and make sure we’re fully settled before we start planning something so important.”
Joan and Chock’s relationship was tested during their time on the show, but they proved their connection was strong enough to withstand the pressure of the cameras. Now, with their move to New York City, they’re excited to explore the city life together, soak up the energy of Manhattan, and experience new things as a couple.
While Joan initially thought she wanted a small, intimate wedding with just close friends and family, she has begun to consider the idea of a TV wedding. Speaking to Katie Couric Media, Joan said, “I love the idea of sharing our story of hope and love with everyone. It’s important to me that people see you can fall in love at any age, and maybe sharing the journey of our wedding would be a good way to do that.”
However, she’s also feeling conflicted about it: “Right now, we’re really just focused on being a couple and enjoying our relationship. The idea of a TV wedding is appealing, but it might not be for us right now.” Chock echoed this sentiment, saying, “We’ll take it one step at a time. Right now, it’s all about us being together and experiencing this new adventure.”
Despite their mixed feelings about a TV wedding, Joan and Chock’s relationship has been marked by maturity, honesty, and good humor. In the meantime, they plan to spend plenty of time together in Maryland and Kansas, where their families are based, while they figure out life in New York City.
The Golden Bachelorette couple also addressed the recent split between The Golden Bachelor stars Gerry and Theresa, who announced their divorce just three months after tying the knot. Joan and Chock assured fans that their approach to planning their own wedding is deliberate and thoughtful, with no set timeline for their big day.
Joan stated, “It’s not about rushing to get married; it’s about making sure we’re both ready for that step. We’re going to spend time together, explore New York, and see what life is like in a big city. Then, when we’re ready, we’ll start making more concrete plans.”
For now, the couple is focused on settling into New York City and experiencing the city’s vibrant culture and energy. Joan and Chock are taking things one day at a time, from exploring new restaurants and museums to walking around Central Park and enjoying the holiday lights.
Joan and Chock’s thoughtful, measured approach to their engagement journey is refreshing in a world where reality TV relationships often seem rushed and pressured. It’s clear that they’re committed to each other and taking the time to get their relationship right.
