Chock Chapple may have captured Joan Vassos’ attention on The Golden Bachelorette, but he’s not winning over the viewers—or the other contestants. While Joan seems to favor him, Chock’s behavior has sparked comparisons to Bachelorette alum Devin Strader, known for his possessive approach toward another leading lady, Jenn Tran.
Chock’s tendency to monopolize Joan’s time, especially during group dates, has rubbed both fans and fellow suitors the wrong way. In a recent episode, the contrast between Chock and the rest of the men became glaringly obvious during a bowling group date. While most of the men were bonding with each other and waiting for their turn to interact with Joan, Chock was snuggled up next to her, with his arm around her protectively.
This scene left little opportunity for the others to engage with Joan. The couple’s closeness made it seem like the rest of the men were just third wheels, creating an awkward dynamic. While Joan seemed comfortable being near Chock, it became clear that his actions were frustrating the rest of the contestants.
When Joan left to take her turn bowling, the men took the opportunity to confront Chock about his behavior, pointing out that they hadn’t had a fair chance to bond with her. Chock, however, didn’t appear fazed by their concerns. His indifference only reinforced the perception that he was focused more on his own time with Joan than on the group dynamic.
Comparisons to Devin Strader
Viewers immediately drew parallels between Chock and Devin Strader, a contestant from a past Bachelorette season who was criticized for being overly possessive of Jenn Tran. Strader, like Chock, often dominated the bachelorette’s attention, leaving little room for other men to connect with her.
Fans of The Golden Bachelorette couldn’t help but notice the similarities. On social media, some asked if Chock was getting the “Devin edit,” meaning that his possessive actions were being amplified by the production for dramatic effect. One viewer commented, “Chock is starting to get on my nerves,” while another felt he was acting “a wee bit desperate.”
However, there may be a reason Joan has been giving Chock extra attention—his mother’s recent passing. Chock had to leave the show temporarily to attend her funeral, and his return to the competition may have earned him more one-on-one time with Joan as a form of emotional support. Some fans recognized this, with one suggesting that Joan’s willingness to comfort Chock could explain why he’s been receiving more of her attention lately.
Still, that doesn’t excuse some of Chock’s more forward comments. During the group date, Chock asked Joan if he could “just take her home” and followed up by asking which side of the bed she slept on. While Joan didn’t seem overly offended by his remarks, viewers were taken aback, with some finding his behavior inappropriate for the setting.
Mixed Reactions After the Rose Ceremony
Chock’s dominance during the group date and his forward behavior led to mixed reactions after the rose ceremony. Some fans were surprised that Joan chose to keep him, especially after his brief absence due to his mother’s passing. One viewer voiced their displeasure on social media, writing, “Chock is creepy, obsessive, and possessive. She made a big mistake. She should have chosen Jonathan or Keith in his place.”
As the season progresses, it remains to be seen whether Chock’s connection with Joan will deepen or if his behavior will continue to alienate both fans and fellow contestants. Regardless, his actions have left a lasting impression on viewers—just not the kind he might have hoped for.
