The Fifty Shades of Grey franchise became a global phenomenon, grossing over $1.3 billion across three films, but landing the iconic role of Christian Grey—the enigmatic, billionaire dominant—was no easy task. Casting proved notoriously challenging, with several high-profile actors either turning down offers, backing out after being cast, or simply passing due to personal reservations about the explicit content, nudity, scheduling conflicts, or inability to connect with the character. Jamie Dornan ultimately stepped in after Charlie Hunnam’s dramatic exit, but the road to that point was filled with “what ifs” from Hollywood’s A-listers.
One of the earliest and most prominent rejections came from Ryan Gosling. Widely regarded as the “original prototype” for the 27-year-old brooding billionaire with a penchant for S&M, Gosling was reportedly not interested at all. Sources close to the project, including reports from The Hollywood Reporter, noted that he turned it down outright, perhaps wary of the intense scrutiny and explicit nature that would come with the role.

Garrett Hedlund was another strong contender heavily courted by Universal Pictures. The Tron: Legacy star was a top choice in mid-2013, but he ultimately passed because he “couldn’t connect with the character.” Despite being one of the closest to securing the part before the final decisions, Hedlund opted out, avoiding the massive spotlight (and potential typecasting) that the franchise brought.
Robert Pattinson, fresh off the Twilight saga, was author E.L. James’ supposed first choice for Christian Grey. Bret Easton Ellis even tweeted about it, claiming Pattinson was her ideal pick. However, Pattinson later revealed he was “absolutely terrified” by the prospect, particularly the physical and intimate demands. He declined, likely eager to distance himself from another high-profile erotic/romance role after years in the vampire spotlight.
Charlie Hunnam‘s story is perhaps the most infamous. The Sons of Anarchy actor was officially cast as Christian Grey in September 2013, beating out others amid fan excitement and backlash. He prepared intensely, but just weeks later, he backed out citing scheduling conflicts with his TV series and personal strain—he later described the experience as nearly causing a “nervous breakdown.” Hunnam has reflected on it as a “rookie mistake” of biting off more than he could chew, and even joked years later that Dakota Johnson (his would-be co-star) gave him a playful hard time about it during a recent encounter.
Other names surfaced in rumors and reports but never materialized into firm offers or acceptances. Armie Hammer told Playboy he instructed his agent he wasn’t interested. Matt Bomer faced massive fan campaigns (including petitions with nearly 100,000 signatures) pushing for him as Grey, but he never pursued or accepted it—likely due to similar concerns about the material. Supermodel David Gandy was even offered the part but turned it down, saying it “didn’t feel right” in his gut and criticizing the book’s writing.
For the female lead, Anastasia Steele, several actresses also passed or were unavailable. Shailene Woodley was an early favorite and reportedly didn’t mind the sexual content, but conflicting commitments with Divergent press prevented her from taking it. Emilia Clarke expressed initial interest but ultimately declined due to apprehension over the required nudity. Others like Elizabeth Olsen, Imogen Poots, Alicia Vikander, and Felicity Jones were considered, though some (like Jones) were deemed too old for the 21-year-old college student role.
The casting saga highlighted the project’s polarizing nature: massive commercial potential versus risks of explicit scenes, fan expectations, and career implications. Many who passed avoided the intense media storm and typecasting that followed Dornan and Johnson, while others—like Hunnam—later expressed mixed feelings but no major regrets.
In the end, Dornan’s grounded intensity and chemistry with Johnson made the role his own, turning what could have been a string of missed opportunities into one of Hollywood’s most talked-about franchises. These near-misses remind us how one actor’s “no” can reshape pop culture history.