– Gerry has been the subject of many controversies since his time on The Golden Bachelor.
– One of the main issues that arose in Gerry and Theresa’s relationship was Gerry’s refusal to move for Theresa.
– During the run of The Golden Bachelor, it was revealed that Gerry had been dating after his wife’s death, which he had previously denied.
The Golden Bachelor star Gerry Turner was sold to be the ultimate catch for mature women, but it turned out that he wasn’t husband material whatsoever after his failed Golden marriage. Gerry, who was cast as the lead of The Golden Bachelor season 1 in the old-fashioned way with a nation-wide search, was painted out to be one of the most wholesome, vulnerable men that’s ever been on the series. Sharing his tragic backstory, Gerry was able to get into the hearts of Bachelor Nation by making himself appear relatable and kind-hearted.
Sharing that his wife, Toni Turner, had passed away unexpectedly years prior and he felt lost without her, Gerry was made out to be a man whose life was stripped away from him after tragedy. He shared that he had two daughters along with a few granddaughters who were helping him through his loss, but he didn’t know how to deal with the pain of grief in the months and years after losing his wife. Explaining he hadn’t dated since his wife’s death, Gerry was hopeful The Golden Bachelor could introduce him to someone who would change his life forever.
During Gerry’s time as The Golden Bachelor, he appeared grateful and humble as he met his cast of women. The cast of The Golden Bachelor season 1 was comprised of dozens of women who were excited to meet Gerry and get their own chance at love. Putting themselves out there in order to find a genuine love like no other, the women were excited to get their shot at gaining Gerry’s love and affection, but they didn’t realize that the man they were presented with wasn’t the man they’d wind up with in the end.
Gerry ultimately chose Theresa Nist during his final rose ceremony, proposing to his new love and sharing that he was thrilled to have found someone to spend his golden years with. While Theresa and Gerry had a decent connection on the series, many found it odd that he didn’t choose Leslie Fhima, who he appeared to have more in common with. Despite the mixed emotions surrounding his choice, Gerry and Theresa moved forward in their relationship, sharing that they’d be getting married on a live TV special just a month after the finale.
With the couple solidifying their relationship during The Golden Wedding special, where they exchanged vows in front of a group of their friends, family members, and Bachelor Nation alumni, Gerry and Theresa committed to each other, or so it would seem. Gerry had been dealing with scandals after The Golden Bachelor season 1 star’s newfound fame had pushed some people from his past to come clean about his true nature. When Gerry and Theresa announced their divorce just three months into their marriage, it became clear that Gerry was the issue in their relationship.
Gerry Didn’t Want To Move For Theresa
He Refused To Leave His Indiana Lakehouse
After Gerry and Theresa got engaged, there was a lot of discussion surrounding whether or not the pair were going to live in Gerry’s native Indiana, or Theresa’s native New Jersey. While the states aren’t as far apart as some, there were a lot of miles between where they chose to build their lives, and it was a concern for Bachelor Nation where the couple would decide to live together. Some felt that they should choose to live in Gerry’s beautiful Indiana lakefront home, while others felt that Theresa’s young grandchildren in New Jersey were the priority.
Bachelor Nation, unfortunately, seemed to be discussing the issue more than Gerry and Theresa were, especially with the press. When prodded about it, the couple continually shared that they would be discussing it between themselves and figuring something out moving forward, but it was clear that neither was budging on wanting to be near their family. Gerry especially felt strongly that he wanted to live in Indiana for the rest of his life, and seemed to refuse to make a sacrifice and move for Theresa.
Gerry Didn’t Reveal His Hidden Relationship On The Show
He Wasnt Honest About His Past
Although Bachelor Nation met Gerry as a widower who hadn’t dated seriously since his wife died, many believed that he hadn’t dated at all in the years after his wife had tragically passed away. Gerry didn’t refute this, and in fact seemed to double down on the fact that he’d been single for the last several years, not even showing interest in dating again. This made his decision to go on The Golden Bachelor both more romantic and more confusing, as he didn’t appear to have much interest in meeting someone new, but clearly wanted to do so.
During the run of The Golden Bachelor, toward the end of the season, Gerry was called out in the press for having lied about the fact that he had dated after his wife died. While he tried to explain that he hadn’t dated seriously, one of Gerry’s exes anonymously shared an account of her relationship with Gerry. Though she kept her identity a secret, the woman gave credible evidence about her relationship with Gerry and hurt his reputation.
Gerry Was Upset Theresa Didn’t Quit her Job For Him
He Wanted Her To Give Up Everything
While Gerry had been upfront about the fact that he was a retired restauranteur during his time as The Golden Bachelor, his past was a little less credible by the time the show finished airing. Gerry and Theresa were in two very different places when she accepted his proposal. While Gerry had retired, Theresa was still working full-time in her job back in New Jersey, which meant it would make much less sense for her to move unless she planned on retiring.
Though Gerry knew that Theresa had more happening at home and it would be easier for him to relocate, he wanted Theresa to quit her job and move to Indiana with him. Gerry’s inability to let go of the dreamhouse he’d designed with his late wife was understandable, but irritating for both Bachelor Nation and Theresa. It was clear that he didn’t want to let go of the place, but asking Theresa to upend her life was difficult.
Gerry Gave Up On Theresa Quickly
He Didnt Put Effort Into Making It Work
While Gerry was certain that Theresa was the one for him on The Golden Bachelor, it was jarring to see how quickly he became disinterested. Gerry and Theresa’s relationship was one of the strongest on the series, with the couple having connected on the first night and continuing to deepen that connection all season long. While some felt that Gerry’s connection with Leslie was stronger, his relationship with Theresa seemed to fit what he wanted more in the long term.
Though it was obvious that the couple worked well together, the issues that Gerry and Theresa had to face in order to come together were larger than anticipated. When Gerry realized just how much they needed to figure out before they could be happily married and settled down, he was quick to become disinterested. Gerry’s ability to let go of his relationship with Theresa so quickly was confounding.
Gerry Has A Bit Of An Ego
He Was Only Interested In His Own Fame
Although Gerry was painted as a kind, wholesome man who didn’t appear to have much of an ego, the opposite was proven to be true throughout The Golden Bachelor and afterward. Gerry was made to seem like he was a kind, gentle guy who didn’t need to be taken down a peg, as life had done that for him. Instead, Gerry’s attitude quickly began to rear its ugly head when he was in control of the narrative.
While Gerry and the women of The Golden Bachelor season 1 all seemed to get along, it quickly became clear who he was interested in and who he wasn’t. Though Gerry was complimentary to all the women, his ego was quick to make it obvious if he didn’t like someone. When it came to Theresa, Gerry’s ego presented itself in different ways, asking her to make major sacrifices for their relationship when he wasn’t willing to.
Gerry Seems To Move On Quickly from Relationships
Hes Able To Discard His Feelings Quickly
Although Gerry and Theresa’s relationship was short-lived, likely, Gerry has already begun to move on given his track record in moving on from relationships. Gerry and Theresa’s marriage wasn’t the first relationship he ended without much of a second glance, considering what came out about his past relationships during the end of The Golden Bachelor season 1’s run. Gerry, who had been made out to be a perpetually single man after his wife’s death, moved on from his last relationship quickly before becoming The Golden Bachelor.
The relationship that Gerry hid from Bachelor Nation was a serious one, which was troubling to learn after he’d sworn he hadn’t dated. The woman he’d been with shared that though they’d been living together for months and dating for over a year, Gerry had gone on to become The Golden Bachelor quickly after their split. The fact that Gerry moved on so quickly is a huge red flag.
Gerry Likely Only Got Married For The Fame
He Wanted To Find His Own Niche
Although Bachelor Nation would surely like to believe that Gerry and Theresa got married because of their feelings for one another, the quick marriage makes it seem like at least one half of the couple got married for the fame it would bring them. While Theresa doesn’t seem interested in fame, Gerry absolutely does. He’s made it clear through the public appearances he’s given after The Golden Bachelor, and the fact that he seems to be trying to hold on to his reality TV fame.
Gerry has been speculated to have participated on the show as a way to get famous, but the fact that he got married to Theresa in just a month’s time after the season ended made it clear that the marriage, at least for him, was for fame. Gerry’s inability to fade from the public eye has been irritating for Bachelor Nation. Rather than taking a step back to reevaluate, he’s been posting frequently on social media and trying to stay relevant.
Gerry Didnt Spend A Lot Of Time With Theresa Post-Wedding
He Left Her Alone With Her Family
Although Gerry seemed to be interested in spending time with Theresa after The Golden Bachelor finished airing and they could finally be together, in practice he wasn’t interested in getting to know Theresa better. The couple were able to get together after their time on the series, but it appeared infrequent from the way they shared about it on social media, and the fact that they were seen in different places by the press more often than not. The fact that Gerry and Theresa struggled to connect after the show was over was a sign that their connection wasn’t strong.
With Gerry and Theresa moving in entirely different directions, it didn’t make sense that the couple weren’t trying to settle into a routine together. When it became clear that Gerry didn’t want to bring Theresa into his life, it should’ve been understood that the relationship had failed. The Golden Bachelor himself wasn’t exactly golden.
