In the gritty world of Chicago P.D., Detective Hailey Upton was a woman defined by her walls, and as 2026 begins, it seems actress Tracy Spiridakos shares more with her iconic character than fans ever realized. Since her departure from the series in 2024, Tracy has remained at the center of a “No Drama” dating storm—specifically involving her former on-screen husband, Jesse Lee Soffer. Despite a decade of intense fan speculation and a trail of romantic breadcrumbs stretching from Lisbon to Paris, Tracy has maintained a fortress of privacy around her personal life that has become her signature “pro-actor” move in a world of oversharing.
The chemistry between Tracy and Jesse, known to fans as “Upstead,” has long been the subject of “giật tít” (shocking) headlines, but the reality is rooted in a deep, years-long partnership that allegedly transitioned from professional to personal. Reports surfacing as recently as late 2025 and January 2026 suggest that the pair have been “secretly dating for years,” choosing to keep their relationship off the red carpets and away from the public eye. Fans have become amateur detectives, tracking their coordinated European vacations and cozy “Wine and Cigar” nights shared on Instagram. However, Tracy’s “No Drama” rule remains in full effect: she shares the joy of the moment without ever confirming the label, effectively silencing the tabloids by refusing to play the game.
Tracy’s commitment to privacy likely stems from her early experiences in the industry. After a highly public engagement to fellow actor Jon Cor ended in 2013, Tracy pivoted to a much more guarded lifestyle. She has spoken in rare interviews about her desire to let her work speak for itself, a philosophy that has served her well during her eight-season run on Chicago P.D. and into her new 2026 project, the USA Network series Anna Pigeon. By keeping her personal life “locked down,” she has managed to avoid the “workplace romance” stigma that often plagues television stars, instead earning a reputation as a humble, down-to-earth talent who prioritizes natural happiness over viral fame.
In the first weeks of 2026, the bond between the former co-stars has appeared stronger than ever. Fans were particularly moved by the “co-parenting” of their shared dog, Nala, whose passing in January 2025 saw both actors mourning together. This shared history—combined with their frequent appearances at each other’s birthday celebrations—paints a picture of a couple that has found “happy ending” closure off-screen that their characters were never granted. While Hailey Upton left Chicago in a state of emotional uncertainty, Tracy Spiridakos seems to have found her peace in the quiet spaces between the scenes, living a life that is radiant, stress-free, and most importantly, her own.
As Tracy begins filming her new series, the “Upstead” legacy continues to thrive in the hearts of the Chi-Hard community. She remains a beacon of class in a chaotic industry, proving that you don’t need a “hard launch” to have a meaningful life. Whether she ever officially confirms her status with Jesse Lee Soffer or not, Tracy Spiridakos has already won by proving that the most important stories are the ones you keep just for yourself. The “No Drama” rule isn’t just a dating preference; for Tracy, it is the secret to surviving Hollywood with her heart intact.
