More than two decades after Sex and the City redefined television, one of its leading ladies is reflecting on her past behavior — and she’s not holding back. The actress, once celebrated for her charm and sharp wit, recently admitted to having been less than kind to a fellow performer who would later go on to star in CBS’s hit drama Blue Bloods.
In a candid interview on a popular podcast, the Sex and the City alum opened up about her struggles with fame, competition, and insecurities that fueled what she now describes as “mean girl” behavior on set. While she didn’t initially name names, fans were quick to connect the dots after she mentioned working with a future Blue Bloods actress during the late 1990s.
Owning Up to the Past
The actress confessed that, at the height of Sex and the City’s success, she often let her ego get the better of her. “I was young, and I thought being tough made me respected,” she admitted. “But in reality, I was just being cruel sometimes — especially to women who intimidated me or who I saw as competition.”
She went on to say that her attitude at the time wasn’t about malice but about insecurity. “I was trying to prove something, and I ended up hurting people who didn’t deserve it.”
Though she didn’t explicitly confirm who her Blue Bloods co-star was, fans believe she was referring to Bridget Moynahan, who appeared briefly in Sex and the City before becoming famous for her role as Erin Reagan in Blue Bloods. The timeline and context seem to fit — Moynahan’s appearance came during a pivotal moment in the Sex and the City universe, and rumors of on-set tension circulated even back then.
A Surprising Connection
Bridget Moynahan, known today for her calm and grounded demeanor, has never publicly commented on the rumored tension. However, in previous interviews, she’s spoken about navigating the entertainment industry with grace and kindness. “There’s always competition in Hollywood,” she once said. “But I believe you can rise without tearing anyone else down.”
That quote has resurfaced among fans after the Sex and the City star’s confession, with many interpreting it as a subtle nod to their past dynamic. Social media quickly lit up with reactions, praising both women for their maturity and growth.
The Power of Accountability
For the Sex and the City star, coming clean about her past was both difficult and necessary. “You spend years trying to be perfect, to maintain this image,” she said. “But the truth is, I made mistakes. I wasn’t always kind. And I think it’s important to admit that so others know it’s okay to grow.”
Her honesty struck a chord with listeners who applauded her vulnerability. “We’ve all been there,” one fan commented online. “It takes courage to admit when you’ve been the problem — especially in Hollywood.”
Entertainment critics have noted that this moment of reflection might be part of a broader cultural shift. As conversations about women supporting women gain more attention, stars who once thrived in highly competitive environments are reexamining their past choices.
Bridget Moynahan’s Quiet Strength
Interestingly, Moynahan has built a reputation for being one of television’s most respected and private stars. Her portrayal of Erin Reagan — a tough yet compassionate prosecutor balancing career, family, and morality — has resonated deeply with fans of Blue Bloods.
“Bridget has always carried herself with quiet dignity,” one Blue Bloods insider shared. “Even when things get tough behind the scenes, she stays professional. It’s no surprise she’s earned so much respect from her co-stars.”
If the Sex and the City star’s comments were indeed about Moynahan, many fans see her confession as a long-overdue gesture of respect. “It’s not about blame,” a fan wrote on X (formerly Twitter). “It’s about growth. Everyone’s been a ‘mean girl’ at some point — what matters is what you do after.”
A Lesson in Growth and Grace
Both actresses now serve as reminders of how far one can come from the drama of early stardom. For the Sex and the City alum, acknowledging her past is a form of healing. For Moynahan, her consistent professionalism and grace have become her legacy.
“I think we all evolve,” the Sex and the City star concluded. “If I ever get the chance to work with her again, I’d start by saying thank you — and I’m sorry.”
In an industry known for rivalries and egos, her words mark a refreshing moment of self-awareness. And while fans may never know every detail of what went down decades ago, the message is clear: redemption is always possible, even in Hollywood.
