
Meredith (Ellen Pompeo) and Nick (Scott Speedman) first met during season 14 when he was a patient at Grey Sloan Hospital. He returned in season 18, and he and Meredith eventually began dating and later became a couple.
After Derek’s death, Meredith has been involved with several men, including William Thorpe (Scott Elrod), Nathan Riggs (Martin Henderson), Andrew DeLuca (Giacomo Gianniotti), and Cormac Hayes (Richard Flood), and those relationships didn’t work out, but Nick has been her worst pairing by far.
Meredith Takes Nick For Granted
Throughout their relationship, Meredith has repeatedly taken Nick for granted. When she decided to move to Boston, she didn’t discuss it with him at all, which made him feel as though he wasn’t really a part of her life. Later, when Meredith’s son, Bailey, suffered from early appendicitis while she was away, Nick rushed him to the hospital.
Even though Nick gives his all to their relationship, Meredith has consistently proven that she doesn’t appreciate him. She even once pretended not to hear him during a phone call when he told her that he loved her. Nick always forgives her and takes her back, but this is an unhealthy pattern. Nick deserves better, which is why he should move on from Meredith.
Meredith Believes She’s ‘The Sun’
During Grey’s Anatomy season 10, before Meredith’s best friend, Dr. Cristina Yang (Sandra Oh) left the hospital, she gave her some advice about Derek. She told her, “You are a gifted surgeon with an extraordinary mind. Don’t let what he wants eclipse what you need. He’s very dreamy, but he is not the sun. You are.”
While this quote was very powerful at the time because of the dynamics of Meredith and Derek’s relationship, it has since made Meredith believe that she’s the center of the universe, and everyone else revolves around her. Meredith had previously pleaded with Derek to “pick me, choose me, love me,” but, in a stunning reversal, she told Nick that she wouldn’t beg him to love her.
Meredith and Nick’s relationship has run its course, and she doesn’t prioritize it in any way. Her children and her career will always come first, especially her Alzheimer’s research. The Internet is right: Meredith and Nick are Grey’s Anatomy’s worst couple, and they should break up in season 22.